Whether you are going through a rough patch or are blissfully happy deepen the love you feel for each other and strengthen your commitment With a pin or nail inscribe the name of the couple 5 times in a spiral up the side of the candle. Hold the candle in your hands and say a prayer. Light the candle every day for 5 days. A bright red candle with an earthy lavender scent. 2 x 4 pillar burns for 40 hours. Remove all packaging before lighting and never leave a burning candle unattended.